5 Phrases You Should Never Say To Your Children

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"You're so stupid" or "You'll never amount to anything":

These hurtful and demeaning words can damage a child's self-esteem and self-worth. Instead, offer constructive criticism and encouragement to help them learn and grow.

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"I wish you were more like [someone else]":

Comparing your child to others can lead to feelings of inadequacy and resentment. Every child is unique, and they should be valued for their individual strengths and qualities.

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"Because I said so":

While there are times when parents need to assert their authority, using this phrase too often can hinder a child's ability to develop critical thinking skills and understanding the reasons behind rules and decisions.

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You always/never [negative behavior]":

Making generalized statements about a child's behavior can create a negative self-image and make them feel like they can't change or improve. Instead, address specific behaviors and offer guidance on how to do better.

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"I'm disappointed in you":

Expressing disappointment in your child can be a powerful motivator, but it can also lead to feelings of inadequacy and anxiety. Instead, focus on the behavior or action that was disappointing and encourage them to make better choices in the future.

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